Friendly advice, to align your dating habits with your sexuality, be you gay, straight, bi, lesbian.

Only £30 per session. 2nd Session is free.

Navigate boundaries. Mediate arguments. Strengthen connections.

What are you afraid to ask for?

What aren't you talking about?

Get to the real issue with modern non-monogamous guidance.

Non-Monogamy is full of Contradictions

A Polyamory symbol represents allyship with unconventional relationship models. Everyone is welcome.

There are fewer rules, but in some ways, there are more rules.

Closeness is key when together, but allowing freedom is paramount. Sex is everything, but also secondary.

When I deconverted from equating love with monogamy, I wish I'd had a mentor to assist me in the new relationship playbook and connection navigation. Mistakes were made, selves were abandoned, and conversations about discomfort were long overdue. I'm now in the position to be that resource for other people.

I'm Ryan Minti, a psychiatrist-in-training and relationship mentor based in London, who develops and modernises relationship theories for a post-monogamy age.

I teach my relationship models on blocking, ghosting, dating, connecting, breakups, and makeups.

Who and How I help

As a Relationship Theorist, I work with singles, couples and throuples to keep them happier for longer. My guidance is fit for all genders and persuasions. I'm based in London for face to face meetings but have clients from all over the UK and the world who are content to connect on a convenient videocall.

My work follows and develops frameworks explaining attraction, formation, maintenance, and dissolution. I step through these theories to explore my clients' attraction, communication, satisfaction, and breakdown, focusing on needs, fairness, and learned behaviours.

I accept singles, couples, thruples at all stages of their struggles. Therapy at an affordable price

Why me?

After just a few sessions, you will learn and wield powerful tools to reappraise and find breakthroughs in your dating. They apply to every person and every relationship, but I can find the best fit for your dynamic and obstacles.

There's a way forward for everyone: soft swing, hard swing, parallel dating, non-monogamy, non-hierarchy, anarchy, polycules, polymers and beyond, all find clarity under my guidance.